LOVE SUCKS!It’s been two hours now since the love potion brought about by the Valentine’s Day has subsided. I’m trying real hard to be cheerful though hours before the date changed. But I still succumbed to this negative emotion hitherto. I don’t exactly know what I’m feeling right now—don’t even know if I’m supposed to feel this way. I just feel so stupid. Yes, that would be more appropriate for now.
This stupidity is beyond my plans for the heart’s day. It hasn’t even paid a visit in my subconscious. Bearing this madness over someone special is truly unexpected. But it is now futile to cry over spilled milk, as the old adage goes. it’s time for these two individuals to take their separate ways.
Once again, I have proven how love destroys the sanity of a clever person. (Please set aside the notion that I’m bragging myself on the last two words of the preceding sentence.) No matter how hard a person tries not to be vulnerable from the weakening powers of love, he’s still caught off guard sometimes—and you can count me in!
They say that the most important thing that should be present in a relationship is TRUST. Yes, trust. This five-letter-word which is very precious for others that is why they hesitate to give it wholeheartedly to their partners, however strong the feeling is. Nonetheless, you really have to give trust if want to be trusted. And so to speak, by all means, I have given mine.
But what if at the end of the day, you will find out that the person you have trusted does not really deserve the trust? And more than that, what if that person utterly destroyed the trust? How would you react? Can you forgive the offender? Of course not right?
Now in my viewpoint, my initial reaction would be to despise the person—forgiveness may come later as time goes by.
However, what if you still love the person? Is love without trust enough to keep you holding on? I believe that is stupidity but I can’t categorize myself afar from it as well. Is this really what others call “falling in love”? Do we really have to fall in love? Why don’t we climb? Now that’s hilarious! I’m going out of the topic now.
Well anyway, I don’t want to put more torture to myself. At least now, I have escaped from the “painful” stage and I think I’m doing it great—yeah, great, great pretender.
I just want to curse her. Slap her. Do some tongue-lashing. And most importantly, hate her. Hate her today, tomorrow and in perpetuity. But, what I vehemently hate now is the fact that I can’t hate her enough despite what she’s done. And this keeps me a stupid person.
LOVE SUCKS!
Ang hurtful naman ng post but it was so true. It was a nice post. Happy Valentine's day to you. Sana ay makabasa din ako nung positive side ng valentine's day. Wala lang. Para balanced. haha. Sige po. More powers to you and to your blog. :)
wow... nice nice one! hello mavs!
true true! kailangan talaga ng trust eh pero mag ingat ka din syempre sa pag bigay ng trust mo. kahit ako, nawawala din ang trust kahit gaano ko pa kahamal ang isang tao. di ko nga lang alam ang sagot sa mga tanong mo e. ^^ even me cannot just give an answer. ^^ maybe that's really how love works!right, it sucks!! ^^ but i just cant stop doing it!
Climbing in love?... Oo nga naman why fall pa kasi ang ginamit? wahaha!
I hate falling.
Hmm, great pretender ka rin pala, wehe.
They say, the more na nasasaktan ka the more na matututo ka kung pa'nu magmahal.. Okay lang yan...
Cheers MAVS!
magaleeng!..
isa sa pinakamagandang entry mo na nagustuhan ko!...
LOve sucks totoo...pati mga taong gumamit neto ,they suck too...kasali na ako...cause and effect..lolz....
Two thumbs up para dito Mavs...
You must forgive the "offender". Though, not right now. But you must.
True love also means forgiving. And it lasts forever.
The considering fact that love obliterate the wisdom lying in one's "clever" person's mind does not necessarily means that someone can't find true love. I know you will. And when that time comes, I'm sure; you'll be the happiest person in the world.
Love is a sealed box that no one really knows what's inside until one opens it. It's full of surprises. Opening it reveals many concealed realities. It exposes truths and meanings hidden beneath the horizon. So, one must dig deeper to realize certain things.
Trust on the other hand, keeps the relationship strong. Trusting each other's love begets strong feelings to hold on to both the relationship and to the person you love. If this trust ends up, then you'll find your self hanging on the edge. Trust is the reason why the engine keeps running. It's an invincible imagery that bonds two people to hold within the boundaries no matter what the circumstances are.
Love and trust compliment each other. Couples can’t make it if they don't have both.
Take care!
:)
@Rhaingel
YEah, its painful but its true. Tnx anyway for liking it. Maybe sometimes i get to see the good sides of love. Ahm, first time mo yatang naligaw sa munti kong tahanan. Sa uulitin ha. Tnx agen.
@MarcoPaolo
Hey, pareng Marco, musta? tnx sa pagdaAn.
@Cyndirellaz
Agree ako sau miss Cindy. Love sucks! Pero heto tayo't nagpapakaalipin pa rin. hehe
@Dylan Dimaubusan
Miss Dylan, pakape naman jan...hehe
Yun nga eh, bakit kasi kelangan pang mahulog e pwede namang umakyat. hmpf! SAna nga matuto na ako nxt time. Cheers sau!
@Janjie
Haha..
I just hope the time is soon. I need to get a fast recovery. But I still, as I always, carry on. Tnx for dropping by Janjie. I hope your lovelife isn't similar to mine. hehe
@Pajay
Aba at talagang two thumbs up pa.
Salamat sir at nagustuhan mo ang inihain ko. hehe. paminsan-minsan lang maging Emo eh. Love sucks nga, pati mga lovers suck din? lolz! Tns sir.
@Mike Avenue
At wala akong ma-say sa napaka-comprehensive na comment ni pareng Mike. Tnx a lot for allocating much time. I truly appreciate the message. Don't wori i'l remember that to love is to forgive. I hope I could find it in my heart though. But tama ka, love has full of surprises, you might like some of its surprises but its not always the case. Kaya nga siguro I lost the passion to keep going kasi nawala na ung foundation ng love, and that is trust.
Sarap talaga ng comment mo Mike, dami kong natutunan. Tnx ha.
haaaaay! LOVE.
Love doesn't suck... (yikes)
Love is good and will bear nothing but goodness...
Think a million time when it starts to bear wrath or anger...
Don't be stupid. Forgive if you must. But huwag ka umasa or risk not being able to forgive yourself.
Gising gising.... SMILE :)
@Oracle
haha...
tnx for leaving a comment
i'm open naman for forgiveness
daan ka ulet nxt time..hehe
even if this post was mostly rant, it was a very easy read. you have a flair for expressing emotions ;-)
@gandarynako
hey tnx for reading my post..
u reli think i have a flair in expressing my emotions?
if that is so, i'd like to thank you...
yeah, it the post was a rant
thanks to blogosphere...
i have an outlet for my rage...
but its not actually a rage...
just letting it out to lessen the burden...
ill link you anyway...
hope ull do the same...
tnx
ava ava ava... pahabol talaga sa valentines day... anyweiz... we deserve to be loved!!! and i like the post... nakakarelate me... pero kilala mo naman si chicken di ba...?
@bea YOT
ahm...
i'm hell serious wid this post
this is not chicken...
who are u by the way?
aw? hehe...
chicken!
hate her---but only for a while---that's a natural thing to do---but not forever. you will just end up in the losing side.....
always remember.....forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, you have things to do and you have to move on.........
@ Pusang Gala
kmusta PG?
buti napadaan ka..
tama ka, i will end up losing
if i will not forgive..
pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko
it takes time
tnx sa comment PG
meow! meow!
aymishu kafated! mwah!
pahabol koment nga vice mavs.. naaliw naman akoh sau.. sobrang explain kah... wehe... naks.. malufet kah tlgah sa english post!.. nosebleed.. lolz.. naks.. inluv bah?.. hayz kakabaliw yang pag-ibig nah yan.. ewan!.. sakit sa ulo lang yan.. lolz... nde na akoh makapag-koment nang ayos.. nosebleed akoh ehh...
btw hightway expressway eniweiz... may secretary nah tayoh... may na-hired akoh.. si kuya EJ! (pajay) ang malanding si kuya EJ.. wehehe...
'un lang muna hiritz koh.. post ka nah 'lil bro vice mavs.. till laterz...
Godbless! -di
@ Joshmarie
Hi Ate JosHy
amishOu na rin
Sobra
tNx sa pagDalaw
inGatz ka lagi
gudluck nga pala
sa upcoming wedding?
hehehe
@ Dhianz
sis pres Di
aba an lufet naman ng secretary natin
ang idolong kong guro na si sir Pajay
teka ba't naman xa naging malandi?
hehe //_' lolz
inalok ko dati kay papel tong posisyon kaso walang response e
buti naman inakcept ni sir paj ang offer mo sis
iba talaga karisma mo
salamat sa visit at sa comment ha
ingats ka rin lagi
GBu